Thursday, 10 May 2012

Ray White / Dad's Tomato Garden

Ray White, who wrote "Dad's Tomato Garden" was called to his Heavenly home today (May 9th).

He fell from his bed after posting his last post Monday and broke his hip. Surgery was planned Tues, but was later post-poned for health problems. He was alert and talking earlier this morning, but passed away as he slept, while family were with him. He was preceded in death by his beloved wife Lavern. He is survived by his two children, Jim and Mary.

Ray, who was known to all of us at the old AOL J-Land as 'DAD', started his journal on August 28, 2003, nearly 9 years ago and had since written thousands of posts. He wrote a journal for years on AOL and then went to Blogspot with the rest of us journalist when AOL closed it's journal program down. Born on September 2nd 1913, He was recognized as America's oldest blogger in 2006 and continued writing in his blog right on up to only a couple of days before his death.

He once said that his purpose in starting his Journal was, " to help others all around the world to produce a good home grown tomato." He was passionate about tomatoes and grew between 50 and 75 plants each year, riding a golf cart in his later years to check on his beloved plants. Dad was a true Southern Gentleman. He never sold his tomatoes, but gave them away to neighbors and friends.

Though he began his journal as a help to others to grow tomatoes, it evolved into so much more. Dad enjoyed watching birds and provided them and the little squirrels who scampered about his yard with food and water. He even shared these pleasures with all of his readers by setting up web cams in his back yard! But best of all, his blog drew you in to it. It was a place to go and feel at home..to feel as if you were actually sitting on the front porch there in the cool morning air of the Tennessee mountains with Dad, sipping a cup of his good old coffee, while listening to the birds chirping. Dad always made you feel at home and at peace.

He wrote a post to his blog everyday except Sunday, always saving that day for His church meetings. If you look on his profile , you will see that his favorite book to read was...The Bible.

He ended one of his last posts this month with this...

"This is going to be all for today, I would like to come back in the morning, because I love you. Live For Others Every Day, It’s The True The Better Way"

Rest in peace DAD. You will be greatly missed by all.

With thanks to Carlene Noggle for writing this tribute

7 comments:

Kath said...

First let me say what a beautiful tribute you have wrote my Dear Friend Carlene,in memory of a most inspirational Man.Yes DAD as we all well knew him,did make you feel at home.I followed him in J/land until my first ever computer crashed.Losing all my URL's at that time,it took me quite a while to fins DAD again.I read his posts but never commented.I commented quite a few times after J/Land folded and Dad went to Blogger.I particulaly enjoyed the Eagle video's,dad put out.I shall think of him dearly each day I sip my morning coffee.RIP DAD.May perpetual light shine upon you.Never forgotton.God Bless his wonderful Family.xx Kath xx

Sonya Cox said...

Beautiful and well done.

I'm mostly known as 'MA' said...

I will miss reading his blog everyday it was one of the first I followed. This is a wonderful tribute to him.

Julie said...

I will miss reading his blog, lovely tribute.

Julie said...

So sorry to hear about Dad's passing, I loved reading his blog.

Jeanie said...

May he rest in peace...God bless him.

Jeanie

Shelly said...

Oh wow, I just discovered this blog. OH my sweet friends Kim and Penny and Pam, Susan, and Alvia. I didn't know the rest but I knew 'of them'. May they RIP!! **tears**